Short update on my last post (scroll down, I'm too busy to link)...
The hospital finally contacted me and they are over nighting the needed paperwork for me to submit the claim to my insurance.
While I didn't flat out ask if they received angry basklash, it was clear they were very aware of the case & that people were very angry. The guy even had someone special in the room to discuss with me their right to charge for the autopsy even though my son was "doa." I'll get to that later, too.
So yeah, I won.
Thanks, angry people. Good job, too.